Monday, 22 February 2010

The Dungeon - Part I

The time came to get ready to go to the dungeon, and Kyle got his things together as I prepared my bag.  I had on a dangerous fuchsia bra and a tight black faux-leather vest, along with a skirt that was far too short to wear in public and my long black Dom boots, and Kyle kept sneaking peeks and grinning like a very bad boy.  A few weeks earlier we had picked out a beautiful harness for him to try out, but he was having trouble getting the plug to stay in place.  I am nothing if not a considerate Sir, so of course I offered him my much-larger blue metallic plug that was sure to stay put (what can I say?  I just think blue looks so good with his…eyes…)  He wasn’t sure he could accommodate the size, but my boy came through in the end, even if it did mean walking with a bit more giddyup in his step.  He pulled on a gorgeous shirt and jeans, along with that infamous belt of his and he looked really damn fine, if I do say so myself.  I stood and stared, enjoying the view, but soon it was time to go, so I walked out to the car first, leaving Kyle to keep up with my bag so he could thoroughly enjoy the view, too.

On the drive to the dungeon Kyle was fairly quiet – I could tell that he was nervous, and I tried to reassure him by reminding him I’d be by his side the entire time.  For my part, I was really excited – thrilled to be out with such a hot guy, eager to share his first time at a dungeon with him – and I think I may have been talking too much (so much for being one of those cool, confident, silent Doms…)  When we got to the dungeon there was paperwork to fill out and then I showed him to the locker room to hang our jackets.  He excused himself to the little boys room and was SO proud of himself for getting everything back together when he was done, he was grinning ear to ear.  He picked up my bag (painfully heavy with chains and cuffs and paddles and my flogger and his subbie bag and all the other fun tools) and I walked him around the dungeon to show him the space.

We decided to start at the cross and I asked him to take out my toys and arrange them on the small table to the side.  (I love letting Kyle put out the toys – it gives him a chance to think over the possibilities and gets his mind racing.)  I stripped him to the waist and cuffed him to the cross (the eyehook was too high for him to reach, so I had to cuff him around the back of the cross) with his chest to the cross.  I pinched and massaged his nipples until they were really hard and ready and I positioned a pair of clover clamps on him, watching the expression on his face turn from nervousness to pain.  He swore a few times under his breath and bit his lip…it was beautiful.  I tugged on the clamps a couple times just to hear him suck in air – I mean, of course, just to make sure they were secure and then we got down to business.

Well, I tried to get down to business, but then one of the clamps came off.  Kyle’s face was a study in surprise and fear as I asked him if he had pulled it off on purpose – the poor boy knows well how unsympathetic I can be when he misbehaves.  I squeezed and pinched a bit more, enjoying his silent torment, and then replaced the clamp with a cruel tug.  Kyle is a beautiful man, but you haven’t seen anything until you’ve seen his face when he’s trying to overcome his pain and roguish nature – his submission is always hard-won and all the more gorgeous because of it.

Before the clamp had a chance to betray him again, I picked up the flogger and got back to business.

I love flogging – it requires grace and rhythm as well as strength and endurance for both the top and the bottom, and I love the meditative space we each fall into.  Kyle loves being flogged, too, and he responds with wonderful yummy sounds as his back arches and his muscles tense.  I flogged his shoulders, his back and his ass, but then realized that his jeans were getting in the way, so I stopped to pull them down around his ankles (damn, that’s a sexy image.)  I looked over to the table and saw the hood he had brought and tugged it on over his head, checking in with him to make sure he was ok with it.  (Yes, some people get off on brutality and extreme ownership, but Kyle and I enjoy domination by consensus – there’s no point in me doing something that will push him so much we have to stop.)  It’s a shame that cameras aren’t allowed in the space, because he looked so strong and sexy up on the cross.  I flogged his ass, his thighs, his calves, going up to start over on his back and shoulders again.  He bowed his head as I hit him, over and over, and his back was soon red with lash marks.   I pulled out my metal paddle and pressed it to his skin – the cold made him jump and woke him from the meditation.  Slowly I slid the hard, slick paddle between his thighs, teasing his cock while I kissed his back.  I gave him a few whacks on the ass, but then switched to the leather paddle he had given me, because the metal one’s a bit too harsh to take for long.  I worked my hardest to leave little star impressions in the skin of his ass, but the paddle wasn’t cooperating, so I had to hit him again and again, harder each time.

His back is strong and beautiful, but I was dying to work on his chest, so I uncuffed him and turned him around to face out.  His pants were still down around his ankles, and the hood was still covering his head, and he looked gorgeous.  I started flogging him, making sure to hit the chain between the nipple clamps occasionally so I could watch him jump and twist with pain.   I paddled and flogged, keeping up the tempo for quite awhile, and then stopped to remove his hood.  He blinked with the light and looked a bit nervous for a split second, but then stood up straight and shot me his bad boy grin.  I continued to beat my boy, loving the way he looked me in the eye, challenging me, egging me on.  That’s my sexy, handsome boy – no matter how much I give out, he’s always right there, begging for more.

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Monday...Already?????

Where did the weekend go? I would have soooo loved to have slept in this morning, which I did to some extent. It’s cloudy and cold…perfect sleeping weather!!

But, here I am, trying to figure out what I will wear to work, what I will eat for breakfast, making sure my clothes for yoga tonight are where I can run in the house, change and head back out…then it will be home in time to watch 24 and see what Jack and Renee have gotten themselves into…

I’ve got to do some more house cleaning and decide on which direction to take one of my BDSM guys tomorrow night or Wednesday night…

One more cup of coffee and I’m on my way for the day…have a great Monday!!!

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Wednesday, 17 February 2010

Lol! ^^ I love my life.

A short while ago I was hogtied on the bed, with a Hitachi vibrator placed “just-so”, and Master running my toes over with the wartenburg wheel, trying to sit still…

Master:  “That’s right.  You’re my dirty little slut, aren’t you?!”

Me:  “No way, I am offended by that word…  ‘DIRTY’ ?!” 

Yeah, we both burst out laughing.  I love my life.

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Friday, 12 February 2010

Photos Of The Goddess

Goddess Helena Taunts You With Her Terrifying Ass Of Power!

You Must Be Punished

Goddess Helena Is Ready To Dish It Out

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Wednesday, 10 February 2010

Wednesday, Preparing...

This morning, I’m preparing for a session with dear subbie. I will be sessioning dear subbie this evening. Our schedules haven’t been able to coincide since before Christmas…well, schedules and weather…so, tonight, I am looking forward to stripping dear subbie naked and seeing what I can do with MY cock-meat and his man-pussy…

I’m looking forward to warming up his bare ass-cheeks and giving him a little lesson in discipline for a couple of transgressions he’s made since we last sessioned. I’ve laid out all the implements I want to use on him tonight…I do love having everything set and ready for my return home from the office, takes some of the hurry and rush of my day out of the equation.

The day is supposed to be another cold one, over-cast off and on as another cold front moves through…not as powerful as the last couple of fronts, but not allowing the sun to shine seems to cast a downing type mood to things.

Time to head to the shower…gotta get around in a timely manner. Have a great Hump Day!!!

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Monday, 8 February 2010

"Nice" Domme

Sometimes I hear/read people use the word “nice” to describe a Domme as if it’s a bad thing. What’s wrong with being a nice Domme? Is the cookie cutter, queen bitch Domme really always expected? I don’t even know how one can be “on” like that all the time either. They can’t. Or if they are, wouldn’t they just be awful people to be around? (I’m not just talking about in the presence of their sub/slave/bottom, but anyone they may have contact with on a daily basis.)

I probably fall under the  category of being the  *gasp* nice Domme. This is not to say I’m not firm with my pet when I’m with him, when there are orders for him. I am not soft where it counts. To me, being Domme doesn’t mean being a grade A bitch….at least not all the time. It’s also about how she carries herself. Showing confidence. How she controls her sub without having to go the bitch route. Really, the only time I can say I get mean ans enjoy it on a certain level is when during play, I’m inflicting things on my willing victim…err, I mean subject.

I know there are subs/slaves who get off on or feel they need to have that kind of dynamic. Being barked at, treated meanly, being humiliated.  I’m not the person for them…..well okay, a little bit of humiliation can be fun, depending on the type and circumstances.  But what I’m saying is, unless you really piss me off, it is just not in my nature to be the full on, all the time, cruel Domme that seems to be more the norm than the nicer one. Why can’t there be room for both as the norm and whatever is in between?

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Friday, 5 February 2010

Montgomery County sex-party host must role-play by the zoning rules - washingtonpost.com

Montgomery County sex-party host must role-play by the zoning rules – washingtonpost.com

To understand how Paul Pickthorne got cross-wise with Montgomery County’s land-use regulations, you’ll need a glossary:

“R-60″ is a zoning classification for subdivisions of single-family houses where commercial activity generally isn’t permitted. The 6300 block of Tone Drive in Bethesda is such a place, a tidy street of mostly 1950s brick ranchers just across River Road from Walt Whitman High School.

“BDSM” is short for “bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” Velvet whips, leather hoods, six-inch stiletto heels, that kind of thing. If you were into the BDSM scene and periodically threw BDSM parties in your home — as Pickthorne, a burly, jovial Briton, does in the castlelike 3,600-square-foot McMansion he rents at 6304 Tone Dr. — you’d attract quite a crowd.

“Section 59-C-1.31″ is the zoning code provision you’d be violating by having said parties in an R-60 zone if the guests pay to get in, as they do (or used to) at Pickthorne’s nocturnal get-togethers. His events draw dozens of people. The cost: $20 for a basic ticket, $50 for VIP treatment.

“Kinky people” is the accepted term for folks who derive erotic pleasure from BDSM. “An amazing cross-section of humanity,” says Pickthorne’s friend Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. “Men, women, transgender, heterosexuals, gays, bisexuals. Every ethnicity. White-collar and blue-collar. It’s really very, very diverse — though we do have an unusually high percentage of lawyers. I don’t know why.”

Anyway, you can imagine what Pickthorne’s non-kinky neighbors think of all this. Fed up, they convened a meeting in someone’s living room last week, then fired off indignant e-mails to County Council member Roger Berliner (D), whose district includes their Merrimack Park subdivision.

READ MORE HERE…

Montgomery County sex-party host must role-play by the zoning rules – washingtonpost.com

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Monday, 1 February 2010

Big BDSM Mistake

I got a call from the owner of the club on Saturday asking if I could work that night. I said I could, but I wouldn’t be able to be there from the start, and he said that was fine and I could work from 10pm. It was a good night with Emma Butt, a goth fetish girl and a gorgeous teen who is great fun!

It was a bit of an extraordinary night. There was a group of Eastern European men in, one of whom had massive boils on his knob and one of whom was a virgin. We were all briefed by the manager as soon as Emma had noticed the guy with boils, and we were all given free condoms so we could ask all the men to wear one even for oral on this night.

The teen was having as lot of trouble with the virgin who was in turn having a lot of trouble with his penis. She asked me to have a go with him and I got him hard quite quickly. I put a condom on him and went on top. He seemed to really get into it as we carried on, and gained confidence to be holding my hips and making me ride up and down on him.

The fetish girl’s partner had brought a lot of knives with him. Despite being drunk and the bed being surrounded by people, he started with some edge play on the teen. He would hold the blade against her neck and then hold a vibrator to her clit. He drew the knife across different points of her neck, showing her all the ways he could kill her in one move. Then he put a double-edged blade inside her pussy and told her to make herself cum by fingering her clit. By the end of this show I was gagging for a go.

I let him do all of these things to me and I loved them. But when I went out to the smoking garden with him, I learned more and more about him that made me not trust him one single bit. He seemed to live in a world of fantasy, believing he was in the SAS or something, and that he’d been on amazing classified missions as the UKs best assassin using one of the 40 guns he keeps in his bedroom. I regretted making such a foolish decision. From now on I have decided that BDSM is only to be carried out in a BDSM environment. We had no safe word or anything. I’m just glad I got through this situation safely and learned from it.

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